So... i pretty much study people the way they interact the way they treat others and their character in itself. I have an associate that is a true playa (sexing different woman every week with a faithful lady and kids at home) I've never been a part of some of the stories and things this guy can pull off... but Ive heard stories and seen proof... he's almost like a super hero but with cruel intentions... (so he would be a villain...duh jag) but anyway some of the capers he pulls off are amazing and the people he pulls them off with are even more amazing... (can you sense the sarcasm) I'm not sure what he says to them but from the stories he tells he has a 100% suck-sex rating... and the stories are elaborate... he includes descriptions of houses, body parts, and even post-day messages from the victims or ladies he's slept with... so they have to be true... I have a question for both the guys and the ladies.
Ladies/Fellas have you ever just wanted and went through with just having sex no strings? Why?
And would you do it if you had a significant other at home with kids?
Am i hating?
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Sex no strings? Yup in my "younger days" it's happened and I was pretty much fine with it. You make choices and keep it moving. As for doing it with a family at home, NEVER THAT.Not my style at all.
i guess this doesn't really apply to me because i'm not having sex lol .. but i'm not the kind of person to wanna have sex with not strings attached ... partly because of the way i was raised and because i cant see myself doing that ... and definitely wouldn't do it if i had a SO and kids .
Hmmm. I've done the whole sex with no strings thing before, but at this point in my life, I wouldn't do it again. It's not worth it. Personally, if I'm going to have sex I want it to be with the one I love and I know that things are long term. Now if I have a SO and kids , then I wouldn't. That is just disrespectful to my SO and my kids. What if I sleep with someone and catch an STI or have another child. That can be devastating. Just ask Gov. Mark Sanford.
ive done the no strings attached thing. it worked because we both new it was nothing more (it actually lasted for about 3 years). we didnt ever hang out besides "those times".
why did i do it? i knew that we could never date (he was NO GOOD for that) but we had a sexual connection that i still havent found with anyone else.
it actually ended because he started dating someone. he still wanted to continue our escapades but i wouldnt, so that answers your last question than too.
Sex with no strings is good for people who expect "Sex with no strings" However I have dated a player who had a a wife and kids at home. Didn't think he cared much, but I felt really hurt that he was hurting her more than I. Nothing good ever comes out of cheating to be honest.
I have definitely had no-strings sex before. There were times it was no strings because it is what he wanted and i wasn't strong enough to demand more...in recent years it was no strings mutually because i refused to give any more of myself. I had ended a very long dysfunctional relationship where i ended up very hurt, angry and bitter. i was in no position to be with anyone but didn't want to deny myself sex i love...i found men that would comply...
i would not and have not done that while i was in a committed relationship with someone...at this stage in my life i do not desire a no strings relationship...i want my fairy tale and only chose to sleep with those who i think could be that..
if i have a family...husband and kids...there is no sex outside of the home.
as far as having sex no strings...of course..when it's a mutual understanding it is what it is...i find it easier to do now that i am older, but LESS desire to do it or even need it...
i have definitely had nsa sex. its not for everyone some people are not emotionally ready for that but i have done it and enjoy it. sometimes you dont want a relationship, you dont want a commitment you just want to have sex. i have never done it while in a relationship and now that i am older i would not do it with a so and kids... thats a def no no because then you get other people involved who did not sign up for drama. your family risk being hurt by your actions
I can't do that sex-no strings attached thing, it's just not my style. Some people don't know what they have at home or some people are completely unhappy at home, but it's an issue that should be addressed with a significant other. No need to go out and be a cheater.
i have done the no strings but not by immediate choice (was convinced later that just sex was best) and definitely not with S.O. at home to me its stupid i want to be in love not just mess around... listening to this guys stories makes it seem fun but i wouldnt chance it cause what happens in the dark comes out in the light.
I totally agree with that last comment JAg...Great topic!
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