"Truth be told"
So my best friend (The Chief) called me yesterday and he's venting about his new lady friend. They've been dating for about 6 months i think... don't quote me but i think 6. They've been living together for about 3 months....Pause...OK before i start this story let me give you history when i lived in Atlanta he and i were
roommates along with another guy. We lived in a 5 bedroom house immaculate on the outside and very player on the inside you know leather couches big screen, XL beds etc... it was very useful for off campus get aways, slumber parties, and crazy house parties with alcohol. Needless to say we called ourselves the "no goods" I was straight out of college two degrees ready for grad school, he was just starting Law school and our other roommate was a blue collar worker who was from Cali in undergrad and loved Mary Jane. The "no goods"- Tha chief(he had to be in control) theme song "Yeah" -Usher feat Lil Jon, Tha champ(never lost a fight or argument) theme song Get it wet-"Twista"(that's me ), and Solo (always separated himself some how)theme song By myself-Ying Yang twins. There was a point in time where groups of women came through our house in shifts... when one group left 20 minutes later another would show up. Back then it seemed cool and pimp like cause we had our choice of three or more fine women cause in Atlanta the ratio back then was like 15-1 now it's like 30-1 that's ridiculous. I digress... but now Tha chief and i have major trust complex but i honestly think we put that on ourselves...OK back to the story...so tha Chief calls me cause i changed my status on facebook from nothing to married... and i did it because i have 995 friends on there and i wanted to ruffle a few feathers to see reactions... i got a few... when this happen? why wasn't i invited? who, what, and whens? Just general meddling. Then he called...and said "Nicca, I'll kill you if you get married without letting me know!!!" "Yea i know and you know if i was getting married you'd be the second to know after me". "O ok!!! Man!!! let me ask you a question..." (this is when he ask a question and doesn't really want the answer just wants to vent so...)"What's up?"... "You know I'm a nice guy and i cook an clean and take care of my women..." "Yeah you always have done all that." "Well this bitch don't appreciate that she's selfish as hell...this bitch is acting real disrespectful you know she left a note in my pants saying i was a loser/ no good ass nicca...","DAMN WHAT? What did you do man?" "I didn't do shit...she been acting real funny the last few months..." (I know him well and i can tell in his voice something happen and that's why she's acting funny so i press for answers...) "So what happen man.. women don't just act crazy unless their hormones are out of whack or they just light skinned...and she's brown"(yes i think all light skin women are crazy including my mom) Anyway so long story short she got preg lost it and they ain't having sex... OK so he's livid about this... (Honestly i would be too) "She should be giving me ASS, CASH, OR GAS and I'm getting not-ner-one of them... I pay all the bills she don't do shit she thinks cause she beautiful I'm suppose to just kiss her ass with nothing in return...bitch please... Jag tha champ, my brother from another mother ,what should i do?" In an attempt to be a good friend what do you think i said?
A)Yep, kick her out you can do bad by yourself...
B) Aw man that sucks she just hurt she'll come around...
C) I think you should tell her what you want...
D) All of the above
Touch me Tuesday-truth be told
8 comments:
I dont know what you said but, uhm, dont be disrespecting my lightskindedness!
nevermind- we are crazy. Lack of melanin- i guess.
ding ding ding you are correct!!! LACK OF MELANIN... just having a little bit makes you crazy now having none makes you want to tan... i kid i kid.. lol
oh my.... well first off it really gets under my skin that she thinks he just deserves everything from him (bills, etc). that makes it seem like there arent women out there like me who take care of their own stuff (I.N.D.E.P.E.N.D.E.N.T).
thank you very much....
anyways....
he has to understand that if she really lost a baby than she is going thru some emotional shit right now. and HELLO! they have only been together for 3 months! WHY is he "taking care" of her???
i have so much to say about this its crazy....
mich-they've been living together that long... and he's that type of guy once he falls he falls hard and fast... God love his soul.
I'm going with E. None of the above.
It's deeper then what he wants and there's clearly issues from the lost baby trauma that must be addressed. Now her lashing out at him is no good but it's clearly coming from a standpoint that we as men don't/can't imagine.
She needs to be sat down and the both of them talk for real.I'm not gonna speak on the rapid moving in with a partner part that just ain't me but to each their own.
It's long past time to have that talk to see if it's worth continuing the relationship and if each partner is willing to put in that work.
It better be none of the above Jag!
This lady needs lots of TLC...he better step up his game and start totally catering to her emotional needs right now.
If he makes this all about her, guess what, she will then be all about him.
Ms. downlow- you really got some nerve she's acting real weird towards my friend i dont think she needs TLC i have agree with Nightfall even tho i didnt say anything cause he kept talk while i was trying to answer
Okay sir, usually I dont respond to your posts but I had to put my 50 cent in. First off....shifts of women, really? Wow thats deep...uh huh anyway to the subject at hand. You know your friend...how 1 may like to leave things out or exaggerate things...just based on the facts given CLEARLY hes leaving some stuff out. If hes taking care of her financially or whatever with the passing of the baby clearly he hasnt been there emotionally nor has he taken the time to talk to her and see whats up. That can really screw someone up mentally, did that never dawn on him? seriously?? the other shit is trivial if shes really really going through something. If hes serious about her then that shouldve been the 1st option...HAVE A SIT DOWN WITH HER...
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