WhY make it so complicated
i just wish i would have never ate it
you can't get over that if you say you hate it
well hold your breath cause i think we made it....
I've come to realize happiness is not about ME... POINT MADE!!!
but my relationship road as you've all prolly read in my previous to blogs has been a bumpy rollercoaster not smooth at all no matter how soft my leather was the engine still ended up burning out.
My real reason for writing is i need to release my sickness... i am a nice guy(contrary to popular belief) but i have hood tendencies... I groomed myself that way to eliminate the pain i had the first time i was hurt from happening again. My good guy makes women love me and fall in love with me but my bad boy wants to take advantage of that...(sidebar)like in most cartoon like movies i have the angel and devils advocate on my shoulders... so picture the lil guy dressed in white and a lil guy dressed in red on my shoulders... Angel" she a good girl do right by her" Dadvocate f**** that she's wants to much it's about you"
...Anyway back to reality, Women have two men at all times, i once heard a wise women say, "the one that shes in love with and the one that loves her or takes care of her." For most of her life it's her dad( if he's present) and the man of her dreams at the time (day to day)
But guys on the other hand dont have a standard too... i like to call this Polywomenistic- meaning there are a lot of women who effect the lives of a man. wheither its his first grade teacher or his auntie telling him women are bad influences or his moms saying dont go sticking ya thing into anything with two legs.
You See by the time guys get into girl theres a mix perception so figuring out how to act towards women is hard( even if you had full family) cause women are complicated (period WITH A PERIOD)... any debate takers?
4 comments:
hmmm..interesting perception of the correlation between limited influence in a female's life to a plethra of influences in a male's life with regard to the opposite sex.
you address several levels in this blog...i will however overall say, that at some point your life is dictated by the choices you make..yes your past and experiences have molded/influenced perhaps how you perceive things or your "instinct", but at the end of the day, you choose. easier said than done at times, but it really is that simple.
so if you make choices that you can lay your head down at night and be content with, then that's all that matters..so with regard to women, you may have the angel and the devil, but they don't make the ultimate decision...you do...and the devil on ya shoulder only has a voice if you choose to acknowledge it..hear it..you can't act on that devlish side if it isn't an option..
in regard to many women influencing a man's life....women only having 2...fact is, if you don't have a solid blueprint, quantity is neither here nor there...
oh and yes..women are complicated in an ironically simplistic way lol
I'm going to reply to this one tomorrow, too many uncohesive thoughts running through my head
Dear Nice Guy (with hood tendencies)
Women are complicated, that part is true. But so are guys..
Why treat me like a princess and make me fall in love with you only to break my heart? All the while knowing you’re just not that into me…. (this has just happened to one of my friends, I don’t understand…he was such a nice guy……)Do you just want your ego inflated? If so there are many other girls who would do that for you with out the complication of a break-up or ties.
You say girls have 2 guys in their lives, but don’t you think guys do too? Their mum and their first love…(the one that f*ks him up for the rest of us)…..
Why do you present your self to me with a disclaimer (with hood tenancies) is it so when the s*hit hit’s the fan you can say “well I told you already, you know what I’m like……”? or is it because you don’t feel you can live up to my needs fully?....
You know exactly what you need to do; you don’t need the devil or angel to tell you. It’s not up to them. It’s up to you.
Oh and by the way, you’re right happiness is not about you.
It’s about us.
Faithfully Yours
Complicated Girl (Who simply wants to be loved)
I figured this would spark some true feelings in one response i read it's about the choices a man makes but that's not always the case with a false influnce and lack of understand the man then loses true instinct to make the right choices with matters of the heart.. and by any means nothing is gonna stop him because the conscious is subdued and he is looking for better...Ok and in the second response i sense a little bit of bitterness which is good because the emotion is a little more noticible, guys never knowingly act not that into you it's always a reaction to an annonying event, action, or habit that turns the tables on a good thing. Women can very seldom inflate a man ego (besides during sex) for the simple fact that a man has to do all the chasing most of his life and only if he's blessed... (we are all blessed)... (but by that i mean with a talent, good looks, and or both) does he get the rightful attention take athletes for example they get groupy love only because the play a sport... take hoodni&&a's they get hoodrat and regular girl love cause they got the tough attitude, the good drugs, big rims and fast money
...?? you are incorrect with the first love statement and for a while i thought the same as you but it's not true the truth is the young man begins to realize after falling for this ONE(keyword) girl and being hurt that there are far more girls than men and he could find a few that are better...Then the search begins but it's more like a recruitment party where he invites several not just one at a time. Now here is where the problem lies either he's finds out how smooth he is or not... and that determines whether he stops playing around or not.
ok the hood tendencies disclaimer is exactly what you said to let you know upfront i'm not some soft bitch nicca that's gonna kiss ur ass every moment for the rest of our lives but i am capable for treating you how you should be treated but as soon as you hit that nerve and we have problem the nice guy disappears as soon as you "expect" me to act that way we have a problem and with that said living up to expectations is not what i do so if there are expectations the relationship has started off wrong from 21(jump street that is)... with humans, women, and emotion you never know what to expect.
... now to speak for myself i believe a real relationship has boundries and there are things that need to be discussed like goals and things of that nature but everytime i've expected anything i was disappointed so i just leave those out of the equation... i go with the flow until the flow goes away...
Love is faithful... muah ladies!!!
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